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“Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” Romans 12:15 (NRSV)

I always think of this verse when a holiday rolls around. And I’ve been thinking about this post for quite a long time.

The holidays are a mixed bag. We all want to have as much fun as the next person, but many of us have at least one that rings hollow for us. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one or a simple disconnect from the relevance of the day, we just don’t share the same “spirit” as “everyone else”. We may struggle with the expectations of others or just our own standard to achieve a certain level of cheer.

Rather than come across as self-righteous in contrast with someone else’s holiday joy or holiday blues… Rather than rain on someone else’s parade or pity party… I decided to wait to share my thoughts till Father’s Day which is, at best, the emptiest and sometimes saddest of holidays for me. I did not grow up knowing my father. I did not have any long-term stable father figure. But none of that is the point of this post, and yet I’m obviously preaching to myself as I write. (more…)

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